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Person information
and personal profile!
"I am a Beautiful, Intelligent, Erotic, Voluptuous,
Witty, Emotionally Mature and Strict, Dominant Woman and I am living
here in Phoenix, AZ. I am 40 yrs old, 5'11"
tall with long brown hair and hazel eyes. I have smooth fare skin that
always shines and smells delicious.
You will get the opportunity to see some pictures of Me
on My Gallery page. If you are lucky enough to be considered for servitude,
you will see more than just pictures of Ms. Pam, You will not address me as
Mistress, Definitely not before you meet with my bare minimum
requirements to be allow to address me that way. I suggest you take this as
a warning. Don't address a letter to Dear Mistress! I am Ms. Pam to you
right now!
I believe in being very clean and feminine within My
dominance. That is enough about My looks for now." Lets get familiar with
my predominant and feminine demeanor!
"Curious submissive(s) always want to know how long I
have been doing this? How I got started and what I enjoy doing? I have been
a
Dominant Personality My whole life through in one way or another really. I was born with a strong
personality that demands clear control within my life's circumstances. I have been agreeing to see submissive(s)
for about 7 years, but I've participated in areas of this D/s lifestyle for several
before that. There are many things that please Me! This where I choose to participate
with BDSM Lifestyle people and/or
observe that D/s construct personally. It mostly depends on the individual I am with
and what has been negotiated. I am an extremist, proving many times within my
enacting D/s & BDSM Scenarios what I like. I
take everything to its edge when possible and within mutually agreed upon
limits, where I always observe those nonetheless. I believe in touch of all forms
through; pleasure and pain. But, I know that does not soothe some of your
curiosity. So, a few of My favorites BDSM Methodologies are listed below.
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The first thing that pleases Me is seeing a
male surrender his power
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I
love seeing my slaves living within their servitude in whatever way
I see fit.
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I enjoy
Erotic Restraint, Sensual Domination, Submissive Endurance and Mind Play.
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Spanking,
whipping, caning, paddling, crops, beating, pinching, kicking, slapping,
hair pulling.
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Bondage,
tying, restraints, rope, bungee, cuffs, collars, blindfolds, gags.
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Cock and
ball torture, nipple torture.
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Body worship
(ass, foot, etc.).
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ASS play,
dildos, vibrators, strap-on, anal plugs.
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Verbal
humiliation, boot worship, tongue fetish, g/s, orgasm control, play
piercing.
Other personal things that I enjoy are reading, fine dinning,
cooking, art, psychology, shopping, traveling, working out, movies,
camping, long drives, music and dancing.
So, you think you want to serve ME? You think you can
please Me, or satisfy Me! That you can obey My every command? You want to give over your
power and do this for Me? You want to put your personal safety, emotional
heath and mental state in My hands?
You want to hand over control of your body, mind and soul to Me to play with
or destroy as I choose? I DOUBT IT! And the odds are you can't do that
really! That should get
rid of about 90% of the fakes and wannabe's who want to play the wrong kind
of games with me. I've had enough of that really!
For the rest of you who still believe: you realistically
can serve as a submissive slave, that you know how to
treat this mature and dominant woman the way She wants and
deserves.....Ha-Ha!! I say prove it, if you think you can really!
Let Me be sweet for a moment and give you a little clue,
I mean
into the way I look at this...that is why you are reading this isn't it?
Or all I will say
otherwise to you; is so what and who cares? Seek them out will you please to
play your head trip with them? In what I don't need or want anything to do
with!
I am NOT a fulltime Professional Dominatrix, therefore,
I am not trying to run a business with slaves running in and out, yanking
their little pathetic weenies, waving a dollar and begging a Superior Female
to spank them on their ugly and wimpy asses!
Don't get me wrong here: I have the UTMOST respect for the
Women who do that, its just not for this particular Femdom. I am a Lifestyle Domme!
Which
means I can say no to anyone I want too. Any time I
want too, I can turn you
down for no particular reason other than the fact that it's what I want to
do if you're unworthy. I
accept who I want, when I want, how I want and for why I want it!
It only takes a
few excellent, and truly trust worthy submissive(s) to serve Me. I have no need for a house
full of half ass and clueless wimps. I have no real tolerance for people who
want to top from the bottom really. I love what I do, it excites Me, it turns Me on,
that’s why I do it! But, I do it My way and within my clear terms to be
associated in my life only.
Let Me tell you exactly what I'm looking for in a
submissive/slave. Just by saying you are submissive, that does not make you one,
in my opinion. Nor will that demonstrate much to this Dominant Woman really.
As I will always be the
judge of what qualities you have as a submissive, in that event and where I
find you desirable if at all? It is where I
look for mature intelligence first and foremost!!!! I choose extremely intelligent
males and females! See, if otherwise they will have no idea what they are truly seeking or
talking about. Thus no hope of keeping up with Me in a conversation about
the D/s community or BDSM methodologies employed within sexualities I play into.
Other than intelligence I look for wit, charm,
attractiveness, lack of inhibitions, honesty, loyalty within your expectations, physically fitness
and bravery. In fact I
adore individuals that work out, nothing gets Me hotter than fit triceps,
thighs and a tight butt. I like confidence, eagerness, willingness, personal capability
within an individual's ambitions. I respect, a level of
submissiveness, within passion, as a desire to please, obsessively CLEAN, well groomed,
obedient and I very like within a given submissive within an unrelenting craving in their gut to adore and serve ME!
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It would be advisable to be good at something and be
able to demonstrate a skill-set personally.
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Can you clean or contribute to organizing my household?
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Can you cook a gourmet breakfast, lunch or dinner for Me?
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Are you great at giving massages or soothing my body?
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Can you fix up My my yard and flower garden for Me,
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Can you build a new bondage toy that is useful?
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Can you write a poem that stirs Me personally or maybe
write an essay
on being a submissive?
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Can you provide something special for Me?
Everyone is good at something, make your abilities stand
out.
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Are you willing to see Me when I want to see you and not when
you want to see me?
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Are you willing to put My pleasure before everything,
especially your own?
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Are you capable and desiring to spoil Me as Woman in the
ways I want to be pampered?
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Can you endure the test of time and provide what I want, in hopes of
someday the will result in getting what you want, as that is how I would
qualify you're deserve it, only then will it happen?
Above all else, I look at personal attitude and within a man
or a woman that knows
what he or she wants really? It is important to tests their willingness to do just about anything to have it, including
beg. I look for someone that will share sincerely their emotions, dreams and fears.
Someone open-minded enough to ask the right questions, and that's about breeding the
right type of conversation, that takes us to a level we didn't know we could reach
together as Mistress/slave. I only accept D/s relationships on a
interpersonal level, that most
people fail to comprehend really, Much less could ever hope to achieve on interpersonal
levels. A submissive should never
be demanding or complaining to me that I don't make them happy within their
expectations.
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